only on his terms

Logan has been hitting. He hits when he is told no, when a toy won't work, when he doesn't like what you give him for dinner. Or he pushes. Sometimes he hits and pushes. We've been doing time outs for months. I know its a phase; it will pass. Sometimes after he hits, he feels badly, and will come over to give you a kiss. He'll lean over and put his lips together and make the 'mmmmmm' sound. And that is his way of making up. But if you ask him for a kiss, and he is busy doing something, he will turn his cheek ever so slightly so it is near your mouth as if to say "I will now allow you the great priviledge of kissing my juicy, sacred baby cheek. Now go away."